New Year’s Resolutions: You either love them or you hate them. If your like me, at this time of year you are filled with past reflection and future hope.
You are looking over the past year and examining your life. “How have I grown spiritually this year?” or “Am I more like Jesus than I was a year ago?”. These are great questions to ask. We need to constantly be examine our lives and seeing where we can grow and mature.
You are looking towards the future year as well. “What will this next year bring?” or “What areas of my life need to be changed?” or “What ways will I grow and what ways do I need to repent of sin?”. Again, these are all great questions to ask and the end of the year brings these questions to to forefront of our minds. We form our resolutions and our hopes based off of the answers to those questions.
Tomorrow is 2013. You will begin to put those resolutions into practice. Filled with hope and excitement, I’m sure you will start off strong. You will hit the gym every day this week. You will read that book every single day. You will have great success for the first couple weeks. As we all know, starting something new is easy, but finishing is very difficult. We are all great at starting new years resolutions, but we are terrible at finishing them. Let me give you an example. We all know that the busiest time of year at the gym is in January. Why? Because everyone is starting their resolution, but by the end of the month those resolutions wain and those new people disappear. Each and everyone of us has experienced personal failure like this. Why do we have such a hard time with follow through? Why is change so difficult for us?
I want to provide you with some encouragement to help give wind to the wings of your resolution. It is a simple truth, but I think understanding this will greatly aid us as we make changes to our lives. The simple truth is this:
Whether you succeed or fail in your resolutions, God’s love for you does not change.
You see, even though we have put our faith in Jesus Christ as our Lord and Savior. Even though we believe that we are justified by faith and not by works, we still believe that we have to earn God’s favor. So often, our twisted motivation for our New Years resolution is some hopeless attempt to make God love us. We think, “If I read my Bible more, then God will really love me” or “If I can start being a more loving spouse, then God will really care about me”. So often we are trying to earn God’s factor through our actions and through our New Years resolutions.
Here is the good news, God’s love for you will not change depending on your behavior. Your standing before God has absolutely nothing to do with your ability to keep New Years resolutions! Your worth, your righteousness, and your hope is intricately tied to your union with Christ! As the Scripture says, “Even while we were still sinners, Christ died for us” (Rom 5:8). Even when we fail miserably, God’s love for us doesn’t change. God loved you at your worst. He loved you when you couldn’t sink any lower, and his love towards you is just as extravagant whether you keep your New Years Resolution or not.
There is that dose of grace to help you in your New Years Resolution. Work hard and make sacrificial changes so that you can ben more like your Lord Jesus. Make those resolutions and do your best to keep them. However, even when we fail or fall short, God’s grace enables us to get back up and try again. His merciful unconditional love for us empowers us for change.
What are your New Years resolutions? Have you had success in keeping them in the past? Why or why not? Share with us in the comments!